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Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Friday, June 20, 2008
Paula White's Divorce
Paula White is a inspiration to all women who have endured horrific pain in their lives and has struggled to over overcome them. The example of her testimony enables others to understand that you don’t have to wallow in your sorrows and hurts; just put one foot in front of the other and move forward.
I often watch Paula’s television show to listen to her wisdom on sexual and physical abuse because I too came from that similar background. Trust me when I say, it is not easy to fight those constant reminders of relatives/ people who betray you in the worst way. In my opinion, for Paula White to hold no bitter resentment and to except the Gospel of Jesus Christ at the age of eighteen, demonstrate that she’s a true child of God.
Randy and Paula’s divorce is very shocking to the Christian community because we look to our leaders to set the example for us to follow. Sometimes the church wants their preachers to be immortal and immune to human behaviors, but think about it who really needs a Pastor that hasn’t experienced problems of any kind? To me, this proves that Paula and Randy are normal human beings who face the same issues as all society does.
It was very commendable of them to announce their personal marital problems with their congregation. I understand if they’re not ready to address the television viewers of “Without Walls Ministries” and the world about the break downs and mistrusts in their marriage. I would suggest, to the followers of Randy and Paula White to allow them to gather their thoughts and heal from whatever disputes they may have.
It is very unfair to the Whites to imply all these accusation towards marital infidelities. How can we question any biblical grounds of adultery if Paula and Randy haven’t discussed what their problems were?
This is an outrage to accuse them of backstabbing God and their members without any proof. Especially when their history has been nothing, but putting positive words and energy into the world. I am confident in whatever trials that they are enduring that God has the answers and He will help them through it. So, relax and let them gather the strength to talk about their tribulations and become testimonies on how to undergo divorce in the body of God!
I am sadden by Paula’s divorce, but I comprehend that sometimes people who join in the union of marriage realize that they no longer share the same love as they once did. If there is adultery involved, this is for God to judge and not a fellow human being (Deuteronomy 32: 36)! My prayers go out to Randy and Paula White.
I often watch Paula’s television show to listen to her wisdom on sexual and physical abuse because I too came from that similar background. Trust me when I say, it is not easy to fight those constant reminders of relatives/ people who betray you in the worst way. In my opinion, for Paula White to hold no bitter resentment and to except the Gospel of Jesus Christ at the age of eighteen, demonstrate that she’s a true child of God.
Randy and Paula’s divorce is very shocking to the Christian community because we look to our leaders to set the example for us to follow. Sometimes the church wants their preachers to be immortal and immune to human behaviors, but think about it who really needs a Pastor that hasn’t experienced problems of any kind? To me, this proves that Paula and Randy are normal human beings who face the same issues as all society does.
It was very commendable of them to announce their personal marital problems with their congregation. I understand if they’re not ready to address the television viewers of “Without Walls Ministries” and the world about the break downs and mistrusts in their marriage. I would suggest, to the followers of Randy and Paula White to allow them to gather their thoughts and heal from whatever disputes they may have.
It is very unfair to the Whites to imply all these accusation towards marital infidelities. How can we question any biblical grounds of adultery if Paula and Randy haven’t discussed what their problems were?
This is an outrage to accuse them of backstabbing God and their members without any proof. Especially when their history has been nothing, but putting positive words and energy into the world. I am confident in whatever trials that they are enduring that God has the answers and He will help them through it. So, relax and let them gather the strength to talk about their tribulations and become testimonies on how to undergo divorce in the body of God!
I am sadden by Paula’s divorce, but I comprehend that sometimes people who join in the union of marriage realize that they no longer share the same love as they once did. If there is adultery involved, this is for God to judge and not a fellow human being (Deuteronomy 32: 36)! My prayers go out to Randy and Paula White.
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
Attention- Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADD/HD), is a Neurological Behavioral Disorder that effect the nervous system as well as the cognitive part of the brain.
Noticing the disease (ADD/HD) in your child is essential. Parents must improve the odds of their child's achievements in life and getting the proper diagnoses for their mental health issues is the key. As children began to grow and develop an personality, this is where children start to show indication of mental or physical illness.
Therefore, If you recognize a sudden change in your child's mood or behavior, and he/she feels depressed, anxious, angry or belligerent, seek professional help immediately. Don't brush off your child's action as simply being normal conduct because this disease will worsen over time and (ADD/HD)will follow your child throughout their adult life. We as parents, owe it to our children to provide the best health options available. Parents, if you're not familiar with (ADD/HD)symptoms and if you struggle with pointing out these medical condition in your child here's some examples:
Symptoms:
*Hyperactivity- When he/she may be feeling fidget, physical discomfort or demonstrates over activeness, such as excessive running and talking. Checking for these signs of negative emotional reaction, negative impulsive behavior and a short memory span is vital in gaining intervention of (ADD/HD).
*Retention Loss - Programmed loss of information which former memories are unable to be recalled from memory storage. If your child has difficulty maintaining mental focus, concentration, and unresponsive to distraction and if they can't remember a conversation from yesterday, this a clear sign that you should to get help.
*Unprompted Behavior - The child is very impatience and may utter out answers not pertaining to the subject at hand or may have difficulty intrude others space. These personality issues should be carefully corrected in order to create a successful and productive child.
Risks Of Not Getting Treatment:
*Lack of self-esteem and very little confidence.
*Tension with family relationships.
*Unruly behavior such as anxiety and depression.
*Bad grades, increased in bad school behavior, and decreased in learning shills.
*Lack of attention to learning disorders, which is associated with (ADD/HD).
*Roads that may lead to substance abuse such as drugs and alcohol.
Furthermore, there are some natural treatments to help your child before you seek professional assistance.
Depression, anxiety and anger is one of the main factors concerning (ADD/HD) because at one moment your child can be feeling up and then the next down. This is very common with children suffering from (ADD/HD).
Parents if you would like to try some natural solution first; Herb Combination such as: Ginseng, Remem, Gotu Kola Plus, are all natural ingredients that will help build zest, energy, stamina, mental alertness, mental functions and reflex action.
Also, Single Herbs such as: Gyan Mudra, California Poppy, Scullcap, Siberian Ginseng, Korean Ginseng, Lobelia, Gotu Kola, Bee Pollen and Cayenne will help aid the problem as well.
All of these Herbs will help with the symptoms caused by (ADD/HD).
Furthermore, if these natural remedies doesn't help your child agonizing disease; you must seek professional help and guidance in-order to gain control of this disease.
When selecting a Physician, who will provide medication for your child, there are a few criteria and questions that should be asked.
(1) Ask if his/her Psychiatric Training succeeds four years of medical school and if their training includes medicine, neurology, and a broad- spectrum on (ADD/HD).
(2) Questions:
*Ask what medication best suits your child.
*Has the medication been healthy and helpful to other children.
*Will the medication work right away.
*What instructions are needed to take the medication and will it be easy to apply the dosage.
*What if I miss a day, due to he/she feeling groggy.
*What are the side effects of taking the medication.
*How addicting is the medication.
*How well does the medication interact with other medication.
*Is there a prolonged intake to this medication.
*Do I have the authority to stop my child from taking this medication.
Moreover, when agreeing to any form of medication, please stay away from Side Effects such as: Dizziness, Blurred Vision, Restlessness and Sedation. For school children, I would recommend selecting a medication that last no longer than 3-6 hours because this will allow you to see your child's true personality when they get home from school. In my opinion, this will better the communication between you and their doctor.
In conclusion,(ADD/HD) is a fact of life for some children, but hopefully these methods will help on improving your child's disease. Parents if you get your child involved in group therapies session with others children, who are going through the same battles of (ADD/HD)this will be helpful as well. There are many organization who help children who suffer from (ADD/HD). Simply call these International numbers for children suffering from (ADD/HD)and the operators will assist you on information in your area.
*International Numbers:
1-253-620-4562
1-561-544-6006
(Monday- Thursday 9-5; EST
Friday 9-4 EST)
Noticing the disease (ADD/HD) in your child is essential. Parents must improve the odds of their child's achievements in life and getting the proper diagnoses for their mental health issues is the key. As children began to grow and develop an personality, this is where children start to show indication of mental or physical illness.
Therefore, If you recognize a sudden change in your child's mood or behavior, and he/she feels depressed, anxious, angry or belligerent, seek professional help immediately. Don't brush off your child's action as simply being normal conduct because this disease will worsen over time and (ADD/HD)will follow your child throughout their adult life. We as parents, owe it to our children to provide the best health options available. Parents, if you're not familiar with (ADD/HD)symptoms and if you struggle with pointing out these medical condition in your child here's some examples:
Symptoms:
*Hyperactivity- When he/she may be feeling fidget, physical discomfort or demonstrates over activeness, such as excessive running and talking. Checking for these signs of negative emotional reaction, negative impulsive behavior and a short memory span is vital in gaining intervention of (ADD/HD).
*Retention Loss - Programmed loss of information which former memories are unable to be recalled from memory storage. If your child has difficulty maintaining mental focus, concentration, and unresponsive to distraction and if they can't remember a conversation from yesterday, this a clear sign that you should to get help.
*Unprompted Behavior - The child is very impatience and may utter out answers not pertaining to the subject at hand or may have difficulty intrude others space. These personality issues should be carefully corrected in order to create a successful and productive child.
Risks Of Not Getting Treatment:
*Lack of self-esteem and very little confidence.
*Tension with family relationships.
*Unruly behavior such as anxiety and depression.
*Bad grades, increased in bad school behavior, and decreased in learning shills.
*Lack of attention to learning disorders, which is associated with (ADD/HD).
*Roads that may lead to substance abuse such as drugs and alcohol.
Furthermore, there are some natural treatments to help your child before you seek professional assistance.
Depression, anxiety and anger is one of the main factors concerning (ADD/HD) because at one moment your child can be feeling up and then the next down. This is very common with children suffering from (ADD/HD).
Parents if you would like to try some natural solution first; Herb Combination such as: Ginseng, Remem, Gotu Kola Plus, are all natural ingredients that will help build zest, energy, stamina, mental alertness, mental functions and reflex action.
Also, Single Herbs such as: Gyan Mudra, California Poppy, Scullcap, Siberian Ginseng, Korean Ginseng, Lobelia, Gotu Kola, Bee Pollen and Cayenne will help aid the problem as well.
All of these Herbs will help with the symptoms caused by (ADD/HD).
Furthermore, if these natural remedies doesn't help your child agonizing disease; you must seek professional help and guidance in-order to gain control of this disease.
When selecting a Physician, who will provide medication for your child, there are a few criteria and questions that should be asked.
(1) Ask if his/her Psychiatric Training succeeds four years of medical school and if their training includes medicine, neurology, and a broad- spectrum on (ADD/HD).
(2) Questions:
*Ask what medication best suits your child.
*Has the medication been healthy and helpful to other children.
*Will the medication work right away.
*What instructions are needed to take the medication and will it be easy to apply the dosage.
*What if I miss a day, due to he/she feeling groggy.
*What are the side effects of taking the medication.
*How addicting is the medication.
*How well does the medication interact with other medication.
*Is there a prolonged intake to this medication.
*Do I have the authority to stop my child from taking this medication.
Moreover, when agreeing to any form of medication, please stay away from Side Effects such as: Dizziness, Blurred Vision, Restlessness and Sedation. For school children, I would recommend selecting a medication that last no longer than 3-6 hours because this will allow you to see your child's true personality when they get home from school. In my opinion, this will better the communication between you and their doctor.
In conclusion,(ADD/HD) is a fact of life for some children, but hopefully these methods will help on improving your child's disease. Parents if you get your child involved in group therapies session with others children, who are going through the same battles of (ADD/HD)this will be helpful as well. There are many organization who help children who suffer from (ADD/HD). Simply call these International numbers for children suffering from (ADD/HD)and the operators will assist you on information in your area.
*International Numbers:
1-253-620-4562
1-561-544-6006
(Monday- Thursday 9-5; EST
Friday 9-4 EST)
Lost Souls
Misleading caliber
Powerless souls drifting
Powerful Authority
Playing roulette
Hearts pumping
For open skies
Generation suffer
From near and Darfur
Invisible statues
Leaving footprints behind
Tombstones marked
Lived but didn't survive
Babies attached
Pleading for any giving hand
Shut - eyes maximize mayhem
Throughout distant land
Lost souls, measured overtime
Powerless souls drifting
Powerful Authority
Playing roulette
Hearts pumping
For open skies
Generation suffer
From near and Darfur
Invisible statues
Leaving footprints behind
Tombstones marked
Lived but didn't survive
Babies attached
Pleading for any giving hand
Shut - eyes maximize mayhem
Throughout distant land
Lost souls, measured overtime
Disllusionment with Children growing up
Children are a beautiful sculpture sent by God to parents for us to input wisdom of difficult life experiences to help guide them in life. The disillusionment that parents encounter with raising children, in my opinion, is that we think our children will embrace the lessons taught by us and that they will apply them in their lives. Us as parent must realize that our children are individuals who will follow their minds and not necessarily the path we taught them to walk on.
I've received advice from several of older people, concerning their beliefs that children follow what you do and not what you say and vise versa. This advise left me confused, because I really wanted to raise a child that was going to be a contribute to this cold world in a Godly way. As a result of my confusion, I turned to the bible for examples to teach me as well as my child. The bible was and is, a good method to use because it has so many moral illustration for all humans to learn from.
Disillusion can come in many forms with our expectation of raising children.
However, I found out through years of learning and teaching that children will have so many different influences to where it's hard to make your influence in their lives top priority. My advise to parents is to sell yourself as a marking tool to your child. Find something that you're good at and pitch it; brag on how great you are, how smart you are, and how your since of style expresses character of maturity. Trust me, if you don't promote yourself on being the apple of their eye, someone else will.
Warning, you don't want your child valuing someone's opinion over yours because you don't know whether that influence will be good or bad. Now, for the parents who have achieved this task successfully and your child looks to you as the greatest invention since slice bread, I applaud you!
Raising children can be frustrating and one of the most hardest occupation a human being will face in their life time. The ideal of children following this well mapped out life expectancy that us as parents provide for them is very disappointing, when they unknowingly allow others to lead them astray. This world has some many malicious people that will try to mislead your child in a different direction just to spite their achievements. Building a foundation of love and creating a strong character for your child is essential.
Parents must defend their child against the disillusionments of this world in hopes that the evil one doesn't overtake and destroy them as he has done to so many others. Living in this diverse universe, it all boils down to people either being "Doers" and "Receivers". Doers are the people who are well aware of their evil deeds and they intently go around harming others. Receivers are the people who get tricked by their hateful but, fabricated as loving snares. Parents, you must input in your child to be a receiver who fight against persuasions of doing wrong.
All in all, parent don't give up hope on your child, if you one day realized that some of your expectation as turned into disillusionments. We as parents must eventually learn to separate our children's path in life from our leadership. Martin Luther King Jr. : "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in the moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy". Disillusion equals undermined identity which can turn into awakened prosperity.
I've received advice from several of older people, concerning their beliefs that children follow what you do and not what you say and vise versa. This advise left me confused, because I really wanted to raise a child that was going to be a contribute to this cold world in a Godly way. As a result of my confusion, I turned to the bible for examples to teach me as well as my child. The bible was and is, a good method to use because it has so many moral illustration for all humans to learn from.
Disillusion can come in many forms with our expectation of raising children.
However, I found out through years of learning and teaching that children will have so many different influences to where it's hard to make your influence in their lives top priority. My advise to parents is to sell yourself as a marking tool to your child. Find something that you're good at and pitch it; brag on how great you are, how smart you are, and how your since of style expresses character of maturity. Trust me, if you don't promote yourself on being the apple of their eye, someone else will.
Warning, you don't want your child valuing someone's opinion over yours because you don't know whether that influence will be good or bad. Now, for the parents who have achieved this task successfully and your child looks to you as the greatest invention since slice bread, I applaud you!
Raising children can be frustrating and one of the most hardest occupation a human being will face in their life time. The ideal of children following this well mapped out life expectancy that us as parents provide for them is very disappointing, when they unknowingly allow others to lead them astray. This world has some many malicious people that will try to mislead your child in a different direction just to spite their achievements. Building a foundation of love and creating a strong character for your child is essential.
Parents must defend their child against the disillusionments of this world in hopes that the evil one doesn't overtake and destroy them as he has done to so many others. Living in this diverse universe, it all boils down to people either being "Doers" and "Receivers". Doers are the people who are well aware of their evil deeds and they intently go around harming others. Receivers are the people who get tricked by their hateful but, fabricated as loving snares. Parents, you must input in your child to be a receiver who fight against persuasions of doing wrong.
All in all, parent don't give up hope on your child, if you one day realized that some of your expectation as turned into disillusionments. We as parents must eventually learn to separate our children's path in life from our leadership. Martin Luther King Jr. : "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in the moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy". Disillusion equals undermined identity which can turn into awakened prosperity.
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